Using Emotional Intelligence and the art of self-management to bring efficacy and joy to daily work. Help your team do more with less effort and less stress.
Practical Resilience Training is designed to build the psychological strength IT professionals needed to thrive, even in the most challenging circumstances. We help leaders and teams develop burnout immunity, so they can pursue their goals with adaptability and confidence, no matter the complexities they face.
Personal power rides on two main things: one's ability to maintain emotional balance and ability to set sustainable intents. Basically it is about shifting internal gears to remain confident and inspired in any circumstances. These are not gifts of nature. These are skills I can help your team acquire.
Most discouragement in any people-facing work comes from various forms of resistance and conflict. Few things can wear us out more than constant power-struggles on the way of getting things done. We can fix that by applying Emotional Intelligence to our interactions.
Clever books may tell you otherwise. But your people don't need PhD research, right? Let's focus on what works in practice, not theory.
6. Execution
Experience a training 100% tailored to participants' personalities and their particular situations. No time wasted on generic babble or insulting their intelligence with obvious ideas.
Shifting perspectives and performing alternative actions in the same exercise or role-play allows participants to practice new behaviors and immediately see the impact on how they feel and the results they get. This is the most efficient way to learn, because once they have this experience (not just the insight) — they can immediately apply it in real situations and get satisfying results.
It is quite natural for people to be driven by greed and desire to prove their worth. While it can serve as fuel for achievement, it produces a lot of toxic emissions in the form of stress and conflicts with others.
It basically means we are relying on our survival instincts to get results. This has proven time and again to be unsatisfying and unsustainable.
People driven by the desire to contribute and an articulated purpose tend to have a stronger and longer-lasting motivation to do the work. Instead of competing and clashing with people around them they collaborate. And and instead of burning out — they grow.
One of the main things which takes the wind out of our sails is self-criticism. Many of us have been taught that "tough love" is the way to maintain good performance. That the harder we beat on ourselves — the stronger and better we get.
However in reality it's not how it works. It erodes our self-image, our energy and our empathy. It builds up anger which we tend to unleash on others. Most people don't realize just how much it contributes to their stress and burnout.
When equipped with tools of self-support people find they become much more capable and resilient. They are amazed at the power of becoming your own best friend.
Most people understand emotional control as the ability to subdue what they feel. This is not only inefficient, it leads to mental and physical disorders.
Instead we learn how to redirect emotions, so you can choose what to feel based on what is appropriate and helpful for the particular situation.
So it is not about shutting down an emotion which popped up, or imitating something else. Instead we go a level deeper and learn the tools of regulating emotions, tuning their intensity and easily switching between them at will. That gives people a whole new level of cognitive flexibility, emotional resilience and influence.
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